broken.

it's one thing that you're leaving us to be with another woman. its another to blame everything on my mother and expect her to still support you financially and claim what you say is your half of everything. what, so you can have money to date your mistress?

are you serious?

i'm beyond angry right now, i can't even cry. making her feel bad for stepping up, for doing what you were supposed to be doing, accusing her of taking that from you.

NOBODY TOOK ANYTHING FROM YOU. you had a rough patch, we were all there to support you through it, but somebody had to step up. she did. but she never hindered you from reclaiming your spot. we were there, on every failed attempt, we were there to pat you in the back and say there's still hope, you'll get it right, we're here. and we were.

and now you're saying that she took away from you the respect you deserve, because she made sure our family will live comfortably... so what would you rather her do, sit down and mope with every miss you made? and where will that leave us, ha?

she did what she had to do, for us. not to render you worthless. she took care of all of us when you were having trouble doing it. we never judged you for that before. to us, we were a team, and you two are co-captains. whatever one lacks, the other steps up to fill and vice versa. we were behind every project that you have came up with since day one. each and every one.

when you left the first time, i gave you space because i was hoping you'd come to your senses and realize that there was no reason to fight in the first place. that it doesn't matter what other people say, what's important is us, our family. and to us, you have and will always be, the very pillar of our home.

but now i know that its not that you can't, it's that you won't. because then, what other reason do you have to leave your family of 27 years but that you we're unfaithful. that you have become the very person you have been trying to protect us from.

and to bring insult to injury, you still had the audacity to ask money from us? to take "your half" of things, that may i point out, was there to begin with mostly from our mother's hard work FOR US, your 3 children. not for you to spend on your midlife crisis of a mistress.

so no. you wanted that life, then go, but leave us alone. you are not to get a single cent from us, our mom has given more than enough to you, because God knows she loved you and took care of you. you have been one of the most spoiled husbands i know. and for you to turn things around like that and make this ALL her fault.

NO.

go ask your "sweetheart" for money. let her take care of you.

you no longer have a family here, and i don't have a father anymore.